Nice Guys Finish First, Not Last - Men Need To Change The Game

by Lucas Castillo

November 23rd, 2018

There is something to be said about that lame statement some of us guys are used to hearing. We feel it all too often as well.

‘Nice guys finish last.’

I want to change this perspective for the men that are hopelessly still looking for love.

We are in a society that has obviously built a reputation for nice guys being labeled as too nice, or too good of a listener and all of those things that women seem to be looking for in an ‘actual man’.

This is where we should really be getting a good laugh.

Ladies, nice guys are the guys that have it figured out. They are the ones that most likely already learned their lessons. They already have the tools necessary to thrive in a relationship and provide the kind of love and attention women are craving these days.

I firmly believe, and I think anyone else will agree that 'nice guys' are the ones teaching girls that THEY are not ready to move forward and that THEY are the ones that are still learning their lessons.

It's not our fault that they cannot see the good in you. It's not your job to reveal that to them.

We often hear that one girl will go from one nice guy and the next being a trouble maker, or a ‘bad boy.’

Of course, this is bullshit. We find it quite insulting. It hits quite deep and this can honestly really damage what little bit of our ego we hold onto. Real men have very small or very good ego-managing skills. The show off in the most loving of ways with their ego's. *Please note that, ladies.

If you are a guy and have been labeled as a 'nice guy' and seem to be going out with girl after girl and is having no luck, just know that if you continue to put yourself and your morals first, you will find an actual woman that will see you for the kind of man you are.

You as a man does not ever have to compromise himself for a woman, just like a woman never has to compromise herself for a man. A real man will see his future spouse as his equal. Not less than. Or forever best friend, if marriage isn’t for you or whatever.

If you are a woman that continues to pass up the ‘good guys’, you are just playing a fool’s game. It’s no different than what dumb men do that haven’t learned their lessons yet.

It’s one thing to manipulate someone into getting what you want, which is wrong but people subconsciously do it every day. You serve yourself the best when you simply stop letting the other person dictate and pull you away from things that you want most in a person. It’s simple. If that person doesn’t support the foundational qualities and beliefs you have, then it won’t work.

Men. My ultimate best advice with dating is to stick up for yourselves and know your worth. Make sure your ego is in check. Stop letting your ego in combination with your cock get in the way from finding actual love. If that's what you really want. A real woman isn’t going to feed your ego, she is going to feed your heart and push you to be an even better man. And when you find a woman that does that for you, you won’t have to worry about your sexual needs.

I promise.

Man or woman, don't let anyone make you feel less than what you deserve. If you already know what you are capable of doing for a person and that person walks, let them be the fool to think that you finished last.

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